I would have never came to such a significant conclusion if I wasn’t watching The Game on a Saturday afternoon.

“Wake up.”

That’s what I whispered to myself during a commercial break of a random tv show.

It was weird and came out of the blue. I wasn’t in a reflective space. I was just waiting for the commercials to end.

Later, I started thinking more about that whisper.

The more I thought about it the whisper began to make sense.

I realized it was a wake up call to rid my heart of residual hope.

Residual hope is the act of keeping a sliver of hope for something or someone, usually a “need-to-go” thing/person.

At one point, you had a lot of hope in that person or thing. But, through disappointment, divine intervention, or some other factor, you took away a lot of the hope you once had. What’s left is the residue.

Hope is great. It’s a sustaining power in the midst of adversity. But, sometimes that hope can leave a bad residue on your life.

You keep a small pocket of baby hope for things or people that you know are not good for you.

You tell yourself and others that you don’t want that thing or person anymore. That you know it will never work out. But the reality is you have a secret pinch of hope that it will happen.

And residual hope is strong. We tether our lives with fishing lines to things we shouldn’t want and don’t need. Those fishing lines are thin and hard to see, but strong and hard to break.

Just because these hope lines aren’t big, thick metal chains doesn’t mean they don’t heavily bind us to mess.

So it’s time to clean up the residue. Untether your hope boat from things or people that have repeatedly served you harm. It’s time to place your hope wholly, fully and firmly in the One deserving of your hope, Jesus.

Hope this helps!
Ambini

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How have you cleaned up the residue of hope?

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5 responses to “residual hope”

  1. Jasmine Francis Avatar
    Jasmine Francis

    I’ve done this recently in my life and the most amazing thing is, once you rid yourself of those people/things/habits, you attract the things that are really good for you, things that will make you better and continue to bring goodness in your life.

    1. theambini Avatar

      True story! Thanks for commenting Fizzle!

  2. Valerie Avatar
    Valerie

    this. is. so. good. like, so so good. i’ve never looked at hope in such a way. thank you for this!

    1. KHD, Esq. Avatar
      KHD, Esq.

      Ambini,

      I always knew you were brilliant, but this post, and many others that I have read, solidifies your brilliance!

      There is no measure to your incredible mind. Keep sharing! Your words have me feeling inspired!

      Much Love,

      KHD, Esq.

      1. theambini Avatar

        KHD, thank you so much!! This definitely encourages me to keep writing!

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