Nothing particularly remarkable happened for me this year…externally, at least.

Internally is another story.

I say the phrase, “something broke off me” pretty often.

In 2013, someTHANGS broke off me. And when they broke off, I didn’t break. I actually became the strongest I’ve ever been.

During this year, I’ve worked 80 hour weeks, pulled files on people that hurt me, and turned a quarter century.

But somehow in the midst of my hurried life, I’ve experienced deep peace. I’ve experienced the gamut of negative emotions, but this year I didn’t let them diminish me.

I finally feel strong. Less shaken. Validated. More secure.

And here’s what 2013 taught me (in no particular order):

1. You are more beautiful, intelligent, powerful, influential, etc than you can ever imagine.

2. You cannot wait for permission to live your life.

3. God’s love for you is unconditional, undeserving, and all together sufficient. Accept it.

4. You will encounter confused men who have absolutely no clue what they want in a woman, and it’s okay. Those guys are simply not for you.

5. Family and friends can be your biggest and best blessings, if you allow them to be.

6. People are waiting for you to be you.

7. Make mistakes!

In 2014, I want to live in simple authenticity. (It will be my new fav hashtag.) I want to love God and love others, live a less self-focused life.
I want to be kind, generous on all occasions. And, I definitely want to stop complaining!

I’m not sure if this post will help anyone else, but I wanted to write this post as a record of reflection on 2013. Maybe it’ll inspire you to reflect on the things you’ve learned during this year and identify your strategy for 2014.

Hope this helps!
Ambini