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Hey everyone! So I’m doing something new and pretty exciting…a guest blogger! And the guest is none other than one of my favorite people in life, my sister! She’s so incredibly brave and bold in this post. So without further ado, please read, reflect & enjoy. And as always, I hope this helps! ——————————————————————— People…

This is probably the most personal blog I’ll ever post. And I’m squirming my way through it. But I’ll keep going. Some months ago I had a boyfriend. He was kind, but imperfect as we all are. And it took some convincing for me to get into that relationship. The day I agreed to get…

I know some miserable people. Not many, but there’s a definite few. And I try my hardest and best to love them anyway. They’re extraordinarily pessimistic, consistently surly and they have no clue that they’re in that position. It breaks my heart really. Their gigantic amount of distrust towards love and people fractures me. It…

Culture has allowed us to take ownership of truth. We now say things like that’s my truth and that’s your truth. But, truth is truth. It just is. You can’t have ownership over it. It’s not something you can possess. It stands alone. And I often use the phrase: “my truth.” But what I really…

Ridding your life of shady boots, negative folk, and just bad minded people is tough. And it’s a process that needs to be completed. I’ve found that most people start the process and never finish it. There’s a plot of land in our hearts that’s a cemetery. There’s a lot of death there with a…

One morning I saw a woman with a synthetic fro, an afro wig or something. And I’ve been seeing more and more of them lately. And they slightly tick me off. I’ve been trying to grow my hair out to its healthiest, most obnoxious fro level while these women just get to plop a wig…

I no longer have any living grandmas. Sabana, Ioline, and Nancy. (My father has a stepmother.) Nancy went with God last week. It’s taking me a while to even begin to process her death. Outside of telling people that she passed, I don’t think I’ve dealt with it. I’ve told people, but I haven’t really…

I grew up when I realized this simple truth. Like, love and any blurred variation of the two aren’t enough.

Do you believe you can change? Now, do you believe that the person you hate or who really hurt you has that same power? (Hopefully, your answers to these question are yes or what I’m trying to do doesn’t really work…teehee.) We often forget that we all have the power to change. My father often…

Pause for a moment and think of the list of things you want. Now think of the list of things you wanted and now have. What happened when you got your want? Did it shrink the list or did you just replace it with something else? I’ve been thinking about enough. The concept and timing…